Dear readers, please point to this link for articles on Buddhism, very interesting read. I esp. like this.
The enlightened way to give is to give because there is no difference between their need and my need, between their pain and my pain, between their joy and my joy
The article can be found here (http://buddhism.about.com/gi/o.htm?zi=1/XJ&zTi=1&sdn=buddhism&cdn=religion&tm=213&f=00&tt=2&bt=1&bts=0&zu=http%3A//www.intrex.net/chzg/pat6.htm)